Well, here’s the scoop, without boring you to bad. This girl & I were friends for 2 yrs. She got pregnant, then she changed. Told me I was getting on her nerves. So we hadn’t talked in awhile. Saw her in Feb. I was nice to her, etc. I had been sending her generic emails but, then I quit. I thought I had taken her off my email list but, I thought I accidentally sent her something..So I sent out a mass email saying if you got something, ignore it…and this is what she sent me…..what do you think of it???
I do not know what to expect from you from one minute to the next. You act one way one time and different the next. (I explained that I didn’t know how to act around her because I didn’t want to get on her nerves or bother her) Last time I saw you at my son’s school, you were so happy that morning to see me, then that evening, you didn’t hardly speak to me and merely acknowledged the gift that I had given you for your baby. (I just had a baby & I replied and told her that I was working & could not respond to her at the time but, I ended up sending her a card that next day, thanking her for the gift & I sent a pic of my daughter wearing the outfit she gave me)
I barely have the time to check my email a few times a week, and when I do, this is the crap that I have to sort through. Honestly, I do not have time for your silly, childish games and I’m tired of getting an email from you one day that says how wonderful a friend I am and how blessed you are to have me as your friend, then an email like this the next time. It is best that you take me off your contact list. Don’t send me anything at all, forwarded or otherwise. (I explained how she hurt me and that I didn’t know why or how to act around her and that the emails were generic and that I had not sent her anything since February, when I sent her an email of my daughter wearing the outfit she got me. She has not responded to the explaination email at all)
Do you think she even read it???? or do you think she deleted it without reading it? How should I act if I see her again? Should I ignore her or confront her?
SHE IS NOT PREGNANT…her baby is 1 yr old now.
September 9th, 2009 at 1:37 pm
she probably killed herself
September 12th, 2009 at 9:12 pm
Your girl be dissing you!
September 13th, 2009 at 7:47 pm
why do you care? move on. make new friends doll
September 13th, 2009 at 11:10 pm
hunny its just hormones all prego women have that 1 person they cant stand when there prego unfortunatly it sounds like that person is u dont worry u guys will be better after she has the baby
September 15th, 2009 at 3:57 am
sorry i got bored on the second paragraph so i stopped reading
September 17th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
awwww thats sad it made me die a little….inside
September 18th, 2009 at 2:50 am
oh my god
ewww will you listen to yourself… the lady is pregnant with a baby… maybe she wants to be happy… its an important time for someone they have just found out that they are pregnant.. might have health issues for all you know and omg to be pregnant and have you this wingin friend … yuck
go away from her your like a fatal attraction or something.. disgusting.. i **** people that harass pregnant people .. and there is laws against it… just move on
September 21st, 2009 at 2:36 pm
honestly i dont think she did i think she just didnt bother becuz she knwos wat to expect mayb u shud call her or leave her alone lyk she sed
September 24th, 2009 at 2:09 pm
you should put this in the relashionship category.
you’ll get better responses.
good luck. ♥
September 26th, 2009 at 3:11 am
honestly I know you guys were friends but people that act this way are NOT worth your time, and I would not e-mail her or even talk to her or even acknowledge her…
thats the best I can tell you.
but if she is going to act this way then ignore her…
best of luck
September 27th, 2009 at 7:40 am
For some reason (and maybe if you think hard you’ll know why), she is not interested in being your friend. I know that you seem to be hurt by this, but unfortunately there’s really nothing you can do about it.
Don’t confront her. Just move on and put your energy into a friendship that’s mutual.
September 29th, 2009 at 8:06 am
don’t take this the wrong way, but maybe you should move on. it probably will be hard, or if you give her enough space after a while, she might come to and see that she was hearting you. it sounds to me that she just wants she space. maybe she did kill herself. i don’t know but if i were you, i would just let her be, then comfront her. best thing you can do right now. if she dosent want to see you anymore, find someone new. who knows, maybe she wont be as hurtful. just give it time. i hope that helped your situation a little bit.
September 30th, 2009 at 1:10 am
get some new friends; she sounds really awful and a little like she’s still in middle school to me, she really needs to build a bridge and get over it, no offense to you but you should get over her and just not talk to her anymore
October 1st, 2009 at 3:54 am
Man forget about what those ignorant people are telling you. I read your whole question and i think you did the right thing to leave her alone. They’re sayin she’s pregnant and its mood swings but that doesn’t justify her attitude or being rude. And you said you were pregnant as well so you know how it feels. i think you should leave her alone. If it is just her hormones bothering you she’ll come back to you. you sound like a good friend and good friends are hard to find. she’ll be back. you should never run after somebody that doesn’t give you the time of day. EVER. don’t stress. give her a present for her baby and if you see her, yeah you should speak i don’t believe in bein rude to people to get back at them. Speak, say hello and keep it movin. you don’t have to be rude. you can always find new friends. forget about her. hope this helps