Hi, There is a girl I was dating briefly about a month ago. We went out a few times, started off well, but we just weren’t compatible. The last date was no fun, so we never spoke after that. That was like a month ago.
She likes cooking, and I just got on a mass email loop where you forward recipes on. I think it’s really cool, but don’t know if that like overstepping an unwritten boundary since we didn’t ever email while dating (we are facebook friends, so have each others email from that.)
Is there anything weird about me including her in the loop when we haven’t spoken in awhile? Would that be strange to email her when we’ve never emailed before?
just to re-iterate, we’ve never emailed before. That was the whole premise of the question. Just w anted to clarify b/c a few ppl said too cut the emails down…but I’ve never emailed her at all.
July 4th, 2009 at 10:06 am
No, Your just a friend.
July 4th, 2009 at 2:13 pm
sure its not like you wil never talk to each other
July 5th, 2009 at 8:16 pm
yeahhh include her..itll make her think youre still friends
July 6th, 2009 at 11:33 pm
No, if she asks, just say that you thought she might be interested in it. No big deal.
July 8th, 2009 at 1:14 pm
It can come off as creepy and desperate,so maybe halve the emails you send her and it’ll be alright
July 11th, 2009 at 9:32 am
nothing wrong with it just cause you arent dating anymore doesnt mean you cant be friends
July 14th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
Go head, like it matters, its not like your sending a Take Me Back plea!
July 14th, 2009 at 11:00 pm
No, I think that would be great to do. It shows her that even though you didn’t work out, you’re still thinking about her, you remember what she is interested in, and you care enough to think about sending that to her. I hope I helped
July 16th, 2009 at 3:00 am
no its perfectly normal to email people you liked before. theres tons of people out there that ar stills frends with there ex and that its working out. but yah email her and stuff but it should not be a problem. if it becomes more and you dont like it just stop emailing her and dont talk to her again i meen you have done it before wy not do it again.